I call this place Healing Hearts for a reason. It’s pretty simple. That’s what we are doing. Healing our hearts. I spend many evenings consoling my children…mostly Avery. She remembers him. She misses her Daddy. I miss my dad too. So I guess I have that to relate.  But I wasn’t six when my dad […]

If you know me well, you knew I’d be back!  I just like to talk and write too much. Haha! We have been living up our summer days!  We took a trip to California that was full of fun adventures and spent the rest of the time enjoying the pool and outings around town.  We […]

It’s been quite a year. One we never expected. There’s been a lot of heartache and pain. But there’s been so much growth! Nearly a year ago, we got some tough news. I never dreamed PJ would take his life. Afterall, we have some pretty awesome kids. I’ve learned a lot this past year. First […]

Happy Father’s Day! There’s a lot to say about this day. It hasn’t been the same for me in seven years. I loved celebrating my Daddy!  He was the best!  He fixed everything from the physical to emotional. He had a special way of making everything right. He was the older, male version of me…whatever […]

Today I did some reading. I’m not sure what I was expecting to come from it, but I did it anyway.  Self therapy I suppose. I went back and read the latest text messages I had with PJ. There were several. The last one I wrote said “your kids miss you”. I’ll never know if […]

We are so lucky to have such a caring and loving support system. I appreciate everyone involved in our lives, even if it’s just through caring thoughts. Here are some things about us you should know.  First and foremost, we are OK!  We are happy. We live our days like everyone else. We have fun […]